• Conflict, Camp, and World Peace

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    Conversations online and off have focused recently on stopping violence and conflict. From Ferguson to France, people have discussed, debated, and demonstrated more passionately than ever. When human rights are in question, we speak of “ridding,” “routing,” “crushing,” and “eliminating” the scourges of terrorism, extremism, and racism. Forgotten has been any consideration of coaching people […]

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  • 5 Mistakes Camp Directors Make


    1. Believing in accreditation standards. Some standards are minimum requirements; others are best practices. None is a guarantee of quality. Of course, abiding by national or provincial standards helps ensure that you won’t be convicted of negligence should a serious accident or death occur at your camp. But how many directors run around the day […]

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  • Combating Violence with Empathy: A Good Gal Without a Gun


    Antoinette Tuff is more effective than a SWAT team at disarming a dangerous shooter. As some of you will remember, this 33-year-old bookkeeper at an Atlanta elementary school used human connection to prevent the slaughter of innocent children, faculty and staff. That’s powerful stuff, considering how frequently we hear that “The only thing that stops […]

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  • What Signal Does Your Sign Send?

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    All camps have signs. You passed a few on your way to where you’re sitting now, reading this blog post. What did they say? Some probably listed archery range rules, others pointed visitors to the office and one showed the mileage to Rome. No doubt there is a sign currently located at the top of […]

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  • Are You Gonna Eat That?


    Said one way, the question, “Are you gonna eat that?” is an informal query among friends that is the chummy equivalent of “Can I finish that?” You might here it at a diner among best friends. Although you’d never lean over and pose the question to the queen at a state dinner, the question is […]

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  • Time Redesign: Overcoming Obstacles to Efficiency


    What happens when we intend to make a choice—such as mowing the lawn before watching the game on TV…or cleaning out the closet before shopping for new clothes—and we fail? What does that say about us? We may feel guilty, but that feeling doesn’t tell us what went wrong. In Part 2 of this series, […]

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  • Time Outs as Treats

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    Solitary time is missing from our daily schedules. Those restorative, reflective moments when we can appreciate, take stock, problem-solve, meditate, or pray have been eclipsed by smart phones, shared calendars (that others shoehorn appointments into for us) and a general feeling that time must be filled to be functional. But let’s not be trite. “Time […]

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  • Lead Me Not Into Temptation

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    I offered to watch my 8-year-old’s belongings tonight at Gate B8. From across the hall, he had seen the Chicago Museum of Natural History store in O’Hare. We could both see the realistic looking stuffed animals, including arctic foxes, ring-tailed lemurs and three-toed sloths. (Beanie Babies are so ‘90’s and Webkins are so 2010, don’t […]

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  • Helping Young People Cope with Loss

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    Following the tragic school shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, I’d like to share this helpful article, written a few years ago with Jeanne Stern and Connie Morse, my colleagues at Phillips Exeter Academy. Grief is natural and individual. We live in a close community. Naturally, when a member of our community dies, […]

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  • Why Advances in Staff Training Matter to Moms and Dads

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    Back in the day, all a college kid needed to land a camp job was to be a college kid. Camps were started in the latter part of the 1800’s by progressive educators-college professors and prep school headmasters-with degrees from Dartmouth, Harvard, Yale, Columbia and so forth. Naturally, the young men (and, eventually, women) those […]

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